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I spent an amazing Friday afternoon, lunching with one of best guy friends, whom I will call "Z." Z and I work at the same place and began our tenure at our company around the same time. Z is such an amazingly warm, compassionate, friendly, kind person that is always uplifts me to be around him. The best thing about Z is that no matter much time goes by, we can always connect back to where we left off. Over lunch we discussed everything from my blog, to my end of chasing after life, to his marriage, to his bachelor party and tata bars. Z is someone that I would want on my life boat if I was ever forced to row with a bunch of people to a deserted island and survive (and yes, these are the ways in which I prioritize who is in the circle and who is out...).
Not only did Z help to re-center me this past week but the weekend before that I met with one of my best friends from college, whom I will call "I." "I" is also such an amazing person - she weathered molecular and cell bio with me at UConn, as well as relationships, divorce, and more. "I" is always and will forever be one of my most cherished friends because I am the authentic "Cynthia" when I am with her.
My friendships with Z and I remind me of summer - being with friends, grilling in the backyard, lazy afternoons spent enjoying our beer buzz...and each other's company ;-)
With that, I bring you the easiest eating well roasted vegetable medley which is reminiscent of grilled summer veggies:
Roasted Vegetable Medley
- 1 eggplant, sliced into 1/2 in pieces
- 1 squash, sliced into 1/2 in pieces
- 4T olive oil
- salt (for flavor)
- oregano (for flavor)
- crushed red pepper (for flavor)
- ~1T balsamic vinegar
- (optional) brown rice (~1 cup for one person)
1. If cooking brown rice, prepare according to directions
2. Preheat oven to 450 deg
3. While oven is heating up, take sliced eggplant and squash and put into bowl. Coat with the olive oil, salt, oregano, and crushed red pepper and sprinkle over veggies and oil mixing around and sprinkling some more.
4. In pan coated with foil, place veggies in it. When oven is ready, put veggies in oven and bake for 30 min or until edges of veggies are brown.
5. When ready to eat, take 1/2 c brown rice in bowl, and take a few slices of roasted veggies to put atop the rice. Add the balsamic vinegar and additional spices as needed. Eat and enjoy as a preview of summer...
Health benefits
- eggplant - a starchier veggie that has been shown to help fight fat; its color is also chock full of phytonutrients which can help boost metabolic processes including those involved in calorie burning
- squash -its yellow color makes it rich in Vitamin C which may help boost immunity as well as boost fat burn in certain metabolic processes
- brown rice - whole grains have been shown to help people lose weight and keep it off (compared with those who did not eat any whole grains) making brown rice important for weight control
Reclaiming My Life Part 4 - Social Changes
This part of my 2010 resolution was about really prioritizing friends and family that make me feel like the best version of yourself. Acquaintances are a dime a dozen but good friends can get you through those moments that make you question who you are and why you are here.
In 2010, I decided to get rid of 'toxic' friends or 'side dish' friends...those people that suck the energy from you and/or those friends that you think you want to spend time with but once you hang with them make you wish you were laying on your couch watching tv instead. Studies have shown that positive social interactions have a corresponding positive effect on health, wellness, and morbidity; whereas toxic relationships have the opposite effect, and people have higher morbidity rates as a result, meaning they get sick more often and are more depressed.
If we give our energy to people that do not reciprocate the social buzz that you get from being with them and that do not make you feel like the best version of yourself, then why are they your friends? Most days, I barely have time or energy to think about what I want for dinner...so, I decided to slowly remove myself from some of these unhealthy relationships to ensure that I am living my best life. And my wish for you is that you do the same...